Who Is Your Real Friend?

Hey!!!

Okay so let me first clarify something that I will not be telling you the name of your real friend if you ask me in comment section. 

So who do you think that a real friend is?? 

Is he the person who shares his food with you?

OR, a person who spends a lot of time with you?

OR, a person who helps you in doing your homework?

 

I am not saying that your real friend cannot have these qualities. But at the same time it is not necessary that a person who has these qualities is your real friend. UNDERSTOOD?

A real friend is a friend of yours who does need to change himself to be with you or to be friend of yours. A real friend is same from inside and outside. It is not about who stays real to your face, it is about who stays real behind your back.

A real friend may sometimes push you in trouble but that does not means that he not your real friend, because may be his intentions where not to push you in trouble but he did it as a fun.

A real friend is who shows what he is. A real friend will always help you irrespective of the fact that he would not be gaining anything  from it. A real friend never makes excuses and is ever ready to show himself at your side.

At last, a real friend is really happy when you are happy. 🙂

So now you have to check that is your real friend your real friend?

Comment below the name of your real friend and let everybody know about your true friendship.

 

 

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Why is Young Generation attracted towards smoking?

Smoking-  A word of which everyone is well aware.

Almost everyone knows how harmful it is and and what diseases it causes.

Some of the diseases which are caused by smoking are cancer, emphysema and heart diseases. And it may also shorten your life by 10 years or even more.😲
The point here is that every smoker know that smoking is affecting his/her health but still they doesn’t stop or I should say that they can’t stop.

You will find tones of articles about “How smoking is injuries to health” and all. But why do people start smoking??  even though they know that this will affect their health.
Some of the reasons that young people start smoking is because it looks attractive or to look mature.

The young ones are so curious about smoking and wants to give it a try once because their parents always warm they not to smoke which itself makes an image of smoking in teens brain.

For Example :- If I ask you NOT to think of your mother.

What was the first thing which came to your mind?? A photo of your mother? Right.

So, parents should try not to discuss the topic of smoking to their children. So no image of smoking would be created by at least parent’s side.

Also teens have been looking actors/actresses smoking in the movies and then they think that they(actors/actresses) look so cool while smoking and teens also try to adopt the same style of smoking and develop a desire to experiment smoking on themselves.

No matter the movies shows a warning message that “smoking is injuries to health” but still teens get attracted towards it even though the actors/actresses do not smoke in real life.
Teens also start smoking due their environment. They see people around them smoking every time, like they see their parents smoking, their friends smoking and etc. etc. Sometimes people start smoking in peer pressure of their colleagues or friends. They are told that smoking reduces weight and it also reduces stress and tension. Cigarettes contain nicotine which is a highly addictive substance, it travels quickly to the brain and can causes only temporary relaxation from stress. Though people know the negative sides of smoking but reduction of weight and stress sometimes attracts their attention and they start smoking whenever they feel stressed. Although there are many other ways to reduce stress and weight but people adopt this method- smoking.

It is not always easy to quit smoking but it is not impossible to quit smoking if one want to. A person should quit smoking at the earliest rather than having a feeling of regret in LIFE.

If a person has decided to quit smoking than he should tell this decision to everyone, like his friends or colleagues which will help him to stay on his commitment. Also the person should keep himself busy in the initial days so his mind doesn’t divert back to smoking.

A person who is habitual of smoking spends(wastes) thousands of rupees  in a year on smoking. The same person can have better use of that money which will not only fulfill his another wishes and bring joys but will also save his health and life.

Most of the people start smoking just to know how it feels and just to experiment smoking once, but they themselves doesn’t get to know when this become their habit and when this habit becomes a cause of their death. And a single death in a family breaks the whole family. Smoking is always started by a single person but it ends up involving a lot of people.

A smoker not always asks a non-smoker to smoke but a smoker is one of the reason that a non-smoker has started smoking. 


If anyone ever asks you what is smoking?

Tell them it is- Slow Machine Of Killing Idiot Nasty Guys (A yahoo answer)😉

Stop smoking now

STOP SMOKING NOW OR IT WILL STOP YOU ONE DAY

YOUNG GENERATION: Points Young Generation Should Focus On

By reading the topic you might be thinking that a very old man who is going to die and hates this young generation is writing this post.😂 But wait………I am also the part of this generation.
BUT yes there is a

By reading the topic you might be thinking that a very old man who is going to die and hates this young generation is writing this post.😂 But wait………I am also the part of this generation.

 

BUT yes there is a HUGE difference in today’s generation and the previous generation. You must be wondering why I wrote “huge” in bold and capital letters??

The reason is that there is always some differences in different generation which we call generation gap. But now this gap has increased a lot, which should not have increased by this much amount.

 

You must have read somewhere that your parents are the last generation who listen to their parents and first one to listen to their children.

 

So, the point here is that are we so selfish that we want each and everything to be done in our way.

Young generation now a time thinks that what they thing is right is right  although in some cases it is illegal according to law and at other time it may bring shame to our parents. But who cares….right?? Because we have done nothing wrong. (According to us)

 

There are some points which I think this generation is lacking and can look after these points to have a better image of oneself.

 

  1. Greediness 

The young generation in becoming greedy day by day. We want everything which we like at any cost.

At any cost here I meant by any means. We can cross all boundaries just to get a little pleasure by fulfilling our desire.

Anything which is balanced is always good. For example: – A balanced diet. If one eat more than required than it will make him/her fat and will bring diseases….on the other side if one eat less than required then he/she will not have enough power to perform an activity and this will also bring diseases.

The same thing is applicable to our greediness. It is good that we are greedy to gain or earn something which means we have a aim which we want should we fulfilled but when this greediness crosses it limits than it is harmful for the person himself/herself and for the society also.

Greediness can be of anything.

Suppose you are working in an organization and you want to buy a car. For some time you will work hard and you will even do overtime to earn more which will bring you one step closure to your aim(In this case it is car). But when you will see it is taking a lot of time and is even hard you will try some other method. A time May come when you will stop thinking of your family and friends.

And the worst part is when you will start stealing a little money from one or the other place.

This is what I call greediness.

 

  1. Patience

By reading the heading only you must have accepted the fact.😜

Yes, we do not have what we call patience. We are so eager of all the happenings and results of all the things that even 1 second seems like 1 hour.

We want everything is greediness but we want everything now is lack of patience.

We get irritated or annoyed when something works at a slow speed.

Like when it takes time to load a video on YouTube…..aahhah….really annoying situation.😬

At the other time waiting for our result (only when you know that you performed well😛).

Even though some of us also get annoyed when we see someone walking slowly or driving slowly.

Like really?? Can’t we just control our mind in these situations or we have lost control from our mind.

So, one should have a little patience while accomplishing a work.

 

  1. Show Off

Yes, it is a problem of most of the young generation. I don’t know how one cannot keep his richness, power, links and popularity to himself/herself.

Okay I agree that one must show his talent in front of all the world. But do we need to show our richness, links, etc. to all. It is better to keep it to oneself and benefited at times of need.

What is the benefit of that richness by which we cannot help a needy with it?

What is benefit of the links, powers and popularity if we fail to help our friends and relatives at times of need?

 

  1. Respect

There is old saying that “Give respect and take respect”. But we as a young generation want that everyone should respect us in all the conditions irrespective of the fact whether we are respecting them or not. We have got a lot and lot of attitude filled inside us that we can’t see what to say and what not to say. We don’t even care who we are talking to.

There is always a fight where there is care and love towards other. And the same applies within our family. There are little fights within family members or at some time a big one, but should we show attitude later on to talk to our parents?…….after a fight do we forget that they are our parents?

Most of the time it is our parents who come to us and start talking again after forgetting all the things.

The reason is they do not have attitude towards us and they do respect us.

Can’t we go to them and apologize for our mistake rather than sitting on the bed and having a ego problem.

One should respect all the living and non-living things in this world by keeping aside their attitude and ego.

 

So we should try not to hurt someone’s feeling and at the same time we should have the capabilities to achieve our aim without greediness, which we can achieve only when we will have patience and by respecting the feelings of others.


OKAY, here comes the end of the post. I hope I haven’t hurt anybody’s feeling😍. 

If there is any mistake please let me know and if you have any query about this post feel free to ask in the comment section.